In last month’s blog, I shared with you Part 1 of the ‘Love Process’ which will allow your heart’s desires to flow into your life, and I spoke about SELF LOVE in particular.
The second KEY to this ‘Love Process’ is to GIVE LOVE; to other people, to nature, to your past and present experiences, to your possessions….to anything and everything, no matter how big or small, important or trivial.
One of the easiest ways to ‘give love’ is simply by thinking about what you are GRATEFUL for, and using the words ‘I love…’ to precede them.
It could be something as important as your child, or a stunning view you are looking at, or something as ‘trivial’ as a pair of shoes you saw in a shop window.
You may be thinking “how could I possibly be grateful and loving towards a pair of shoes in a shop window?”. Simply because you love the look of them! You are appreciating their beauty, and the craftsmanship that has gone into them, and you are feeling joy while imagining you are wearing them.
We have the extraordinary ability to love and appreciate many, many different things. We shouldn’t have to justify the things we love. Everyone loves different things, and that is just perfect!
Simply accept that you love xyz, and allow yourself to express that love.
You will know when you are expressing love, because you will feel JOY.
Why is GIVING LOVE/GRATITUDE so important in order to allow your desires to flow into your life?
Because what you give out, you receive back.
You have probably heard of the Law of Karma, or the Law of Attraction, or the Law of Sowing and Reaping. They all mean the same thing, and they are real.
So when you talk, think and feel negatively, you will receive negativity back into your life.
But when you do the opposite, when you talk, think and feel positively, you receive positive things into your life.
When you exude and express love and gratitude, guess what?
You will receive more of the things you love and more of the things that you will be grateful for.
When you feel JOY by expressing love, you will RECEIVE and experience more joyful things.
Here are some ‘tangible tips’ for putting into practice the process of GVING LOVE
Compliment someone today – simply telling someone they look beautiful, or that you really appreciate them, will make them feel like a million dollars I promise you. And it will make you feel wonderful too!
Give someone your undivided attention for a while, to really listen to them. Maybe your child, or your partner, or your elderly neighbour, or anyone that you will think of intuitively now. You could also offer to do some voluntary work. Time is our most precious commodity, so to give this to another person, with selfless intentions, will change your heart, and will bring an abundance of good things into your life.
This is one of the hardest things for people to give away freely, with a good heart. Not because people are selfish, but because they are scared. They lack faith that their money will return to them. They believe that by giving their money away, they will be poorer, and in lack.
That is exactly why it is one of the greatest things to give away. It builds your faith, and to give it away selflessly shows true love.
To give it away anonymously is the best way to take pride out of the equation. Some examples could be to give to a charity, or post money through someone’s door at night, who you know is struggling financially.
I promise you, when you give love in these – or any other ways, and you practice doing it without expecting anything in return, you will start to feel happiness. True happiness.
And when you FEEL happy, you will attract and allow your desires to flow into your life!
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- The Power by Rhonda Byrne
- The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles
- Money & The Law of Attraction by Abraham Hicks